What to say to a man that’s late *Remember annoyance is different than becoming emotional* “Don’t waste my time. If you’re going to be late, please let me know so I can make other arrangements. I have better things to do with my time than waiting around.” If he doesn’t respect this, and is late again wait 15 to 20 minutes then leave . “Don’t call me five minutes before you wanna see me. Although I’m deeply touched that you decided to shove me into your busy schedule. Please give me a bit more notice next time.”